Two little boys who look almost exactly the same on the outside (that whole identical twin thing). Two little boys who could not be more different in personality and interests.
Xander LOVES soccer. He loves to run, to score goals, to outplay the other players. He asks about "Sunday soccer" all the time. He's ready to go every single Sunday afternoon.
Sawyer doesn't love soccer. He frequently hits and pinches and even bites the people who help him through his soccer practices. We are seriously thinking about letting him quit next season. Even though it's a great program. Even though it's good for him to be around other kids. Even though it's important to listen to other adults as they instruct. Because he doesn't love it. He doesn't even really like it. Unless you count being outside (which he typically loves). Or the Gatorade breaks. Or the snack at the end.
I want them both to have something that they love. Xander has found his place. For Sawyer, we may have to keep looking.