For years, we have tried to figure out a sport or activity that would interest Connor.
As a little kid, he loved baseball from t-ball through rookie league, but lost interest quickly once we hit major league and kids starting pitching and you were allowed to steal bases (as a catcher, it was challenging to say the least).
Basketball and soccer both had too much running.
Next, he tried lacrosse for a few seasons, and though interesting for us as parents to watch, he just didn't love it.
He doesn't love anything, and unfortunately, most youth sports are set up for those who have to love it. Otherwise, you're not going to enjoy practice four or five nights a week plus two or three games a week (hello, baseball and lacrosse). It's easy to get burned out if you're not passionate about the game or competitive by nature. Connor likes to play, but he doesn't want to play every night of the week. And that goes for any sport he's every played or tried.
This year we signed him up for 4H Shooting Sports. It's only one night a week, with several weeks off in between some of the different events. There's pistol and rifle at the range, there's trap shooting at the outdoor range, and there's archery at a semi-indoor range.
Tonight, Connor went for trap shooting. It was interesting. And maybe, just maybe, something that's not going to burn him out in a matter of weeks or months since it doesn't ask for four or five nights every single week. It rotates every few weeks, and you can miss here and there without any issues.
We ended the night at one of our favorites, P.F. Chang's. Connor says he can get used to this part, at least!