Saturday, March 21, 2009

Signs of Spring

Today we took the boys out to enjoy the nice weather. It wasn't quite the 70s of last week, but it wasn't too bad with their sweatshirts on.

First, we all took a walk around the block. And shock of all shocks, Sawyer led the way. Either Xander wasn't feeling like himself, or having Daddy along prodded Sawyer more than I ever could. Because he kept the lead the whole time, even factoring in all of his stops and backtracks to check out the particularly reflective windows and doors (his favorite part of the walk, of course).

Second, the boys and I spent a few hours outside in the yard on the play set. And they even got a special treat, as our neighbors were out and their little girl started watching the boys through the fence. She covets the boys' play set, so we invited her over to enjoy the afternoon with us. Connor always likes it when she comes over to play. She's older, by about two years, so she's a bit advanced for our boys. But Connor likes to follow her around and play whatever games she suggests. He did get a bit tired trying to catch her in their multiple games of tag, so he eventually quit on her mid-game. But he had fun, following her to the swings and the slide and the rings.

Xander pretty much ignored her, except when she got a little pushy with the rings he was playing with at the time. He, of course, pushed right back. Never mind that she's a lot taller and bigger than he is, he couldn't have cared less. We're going to have some issues with his temper, I think, as he gets older.

But the biggest shock of all was Sawyer's reaction to her. He loved having her over. He kept walking up to her and hugging on her, which I've never seen him do with anyone. He was like a lovesick teenager, grinning at her every time that he saw her come into view. And he even tried to pinch on her, one of his unusual signs of affection (that most people aren't real fond of, since the little guy is pretty strong). Carmen took it all in stride, letting him hug and pinch to his heart's content and even encouraging him. She has a baby brother, you see, and enjoys the big sister role.

It was definitely cute to watch. My little man, who usually does his own thing and never seems all that interested in what others are playing or doing. He was interested today. It just takes an older woman, apparently.

It's nice to see signs of spring, because we're definitely ready to get out and see a bit more of the world. And if two of my boys have their way, more of the neighbors!